I’ve been hearing a lot from desperate friends who are looking for significant partners. Both males & females alike. Myself included.
Its a problem for many which, in turn made “dating guides for men” one of the best sellers. Books like “The Game” classifies these hungry lovebirds as AFC – Average Frustrated Chumps. Man who don’t get what women wants, and get frustrated every time they see a beautiful lady.
Here’s what I think.
Looking for a lover, is very much like looking for a job.
Do you know what that means?
How many people are really happy with their jobs? Not many.
And how many people really get what they want? Not many.
Maybe you like to sing or you enjoy dancing. What about taking care of animals? Or perhaps you are like me, someone who’s into arts. What are the chances of you doing what you want?
Here’s why I think people don’t get their jobs.
1) They are not desperate enough
2) They are not good enough
How does this apply to “finding love”?
1) If you’re desperate, you sent out hundreds of resumes hoping that someone gives a hoot about it. Your resume is what makes the first impression
When it comes to dating, your profiles on social networking sites are your resumes. You probably need to choose your best photos to attract. People won’t even click on you if they aren’t attracted to how you look.
Its like your cover letter. Its the first impression. It has been proven that ladies who show off their cleavage gets more friends and requests. Similarly these ladies won’t take interest in a guy who doesn’t appeal to them.
In a nutshell, be desperate enough to decorate your profile. People judge base on how it is. If you have little photographs like myself, people assume that you’re either ugly or simply a geek who doesn’t go out.
2) Everyone wants a hot girl friend like Megan. If you hear a guy telling you otherwise, he’s trying very hard to make a good impression.
So, how many out there are good enough for Megan? Dating guides talk about looking your best, and being your best self. To be confident and naturally charming. WTF is that?
Some men are born with good looks. These are the assholes who doesn’t need to do a thing for women to flock over. Others have a natural talent to flirt with the opposite sex.
What about you. What do you have?
If you’re rich, use it. If you have a 6 pack ab, show it. lol. I’m kidding.
Basically we all have to think twice about what we want, and be practical with ourselves. The bottom line is this, if you want someone perfect, you’ve to at least be half as good. If you want to work in a reputable firm, you better have alot to offer.
Just like a job interview, you have to sell yourself! Dress smart, no tight or oversized T-shirts. Speak with confidence & laugh at everything that’s supposed to be funny.
To sum it up, looking for a partner is like looking for a job. It doesn’t pay to work hard.
Work smart, and get laid paid.
Above post is an attempt to be funny while relating back to “New Media Technology” and “Professional Preparation”. I’m not an expert in dating nor do i claim to be.